Couples Counseling London

Couples Counseling London

If communication with your partner has become more difficult of late and you’re having more and more stormy discussions, it can be a good idea to get help. In most cases, a couple’s relationship problems or doubts about relationships can still be remedied. If you and your partner are open to investing in the relationship, following an online couples counseling program may be your best solution. Even someone searching for ‘relationship counseling London’ or any other large city will find an online program more convenient and in most cases just as effective. Because with our online program you solve your relationship problems in the comfort of your own home, while saving time and money.

Online opportunities to improve your relationship

Even in a metropolis like London couples counseling can be hard to find with an experienced relationship counselor. Travel distances, convenient times, it can help to make the threshold too high for your partner. In which case, Monsley's online relationship program could be your answer. You and your partner get a clear understanding of the underlying reasons for the relationship crisis. You learn to understand each other better again and have the opportunity to discuss emotions.

Monsley is fully specialized in online couples counseling. While undergoing couples counseling in London will require you to visit a therapist, we’ve set up a 12-week program based on the proven EFT couples therapy method that’s 100% online. 

If you start the program together, the chances are the relationship problems will be solved in 12 weeks. When you choose Monsley, rather than visiting a therapist for couples counseling in London or another city, the program guides you through the issues step by step online. And when you need extra help or support, simply send us an email and you’ll get a personal response from a therapist within 24 hours!

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EFT Couples Counseling London

Our online program has been developed on the basis of EFT relationship therapy. This is a proven method invented by Dr. Sue Johnson, a relationship therapist from Canada who has developed this method based on her research and extensive practice experience. Three-quarters of all couples with relationship problems find that EFT relationship therapy significantly improves their relationship. In developing EFT relationship therapy, Sue Johnson’s starting point was attachment theory. According to this theory, no one is meant to be alone, as people need to have someone with whom they can share emotions.

Anoek Gerlings developed the Online Couples Counseling program. Anoek has a lot of practical experience with EFT couples therapy in the Netherlands, and has based the online program on both that experience and her knowledge of proven methods. The majority of couples manage to successfully resolve their relationship crisis by following the 12-week online program.

Counseling from home: a smart alternative to couples counseling London

With Monsley’s online program, you and your partner can work on your relationship problems from home. You don’t have to leave the house to follow the online couples counseling program as you would with traditional Couples Counseling. For many couples, a couples therapist is still a bridge too far. Instead, you follow the therapy in an environment both you and your partner know well, helping create a sense of trust.

Curious whether our online program might be something for you? Sign up for a free trial lesson! This will give you a good idea of ​​what the online program looks like and whether you believe your relationship can be improved as a result.

According to research, couples wait an average of six years before deciding to get relationship therapy. Most couples expect to be able to solve their relationship problems themselves. But it’s difficult to break free from subconscious negative relationship patterns without help. While you may find Couples Counseling in London or your hometown, it’s wise to at least explore this new convenient and highly-effective online option. It’s a lot more accessible than visiting Couples Counseling in London - and a lot more affordable.

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Want to start immediately?

If you and your partner have decided you’d like to improve your relationship, you should start immediately. The chances are that practices offering couples counseling in London or elsewhere have waiting lists of weeks or even months. Which is a problem. Because when you wait too long, your relationship problems are likely to deepen.

You can start the online program in just two minutes. And if you have any questions about Monsley, or would like to get in touch with one of our therapists, simply send us an email and we’ll respond within 24 hours!

Trying to Avoid Negative Emotions

A common cause of a relationship crisis is that the couple are no longer able to communicate. Have you and your partner been arguing more frequently? Then there’s a chance that you will start trying to avoid sensitive topics to prevent an argument arising. However, it’s important that you discuss issues with each other. If you don't, a negative interaction pattern can develop. Whereby there’s an unhealthy tension and your relationship no longer feels like it did before. You become, as it were, alienated from each other. Monsley's online couples counseling program helps you address and break free from your negative relationship pattern.

Thanks to the therapy, you and your partner get a clear understanding of what you can do to transform your relationship problems. You also learn to discuss feelings and unmet needs with each other.

It’s important you still have feelings for each other

Whether you follow our online Couples Counseling program or choose Couples Counseling in London or another city, it’s important you and your partner still feel something for each other. If the flame in one of you really is completely extinguished, then it makes little sense to work on the relationship. It’s also important that you both still want to work on your relationship. But if you at least agree that you do still want to work on it, then there’s a good chance your relationship can still be saved. Dou you have doubts about saving your relationship? Read this article to see how you could save your relationship!




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